I’m Still Mrs. Texas, Y’all! Kori Zwaagstra Shares Thoughts from Mrs. International Pageant

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I’ve had a week to reflect on my experience at Mrs. International and I would love to share my thoughts with you.  Competing at an International level was an amazing honor and it has taken all of the last week to begin to process the memories, new friends and feelings.

I must start by saying I had an absolutely fabulous week.  Mary and Mel Richardson and their entire team truly run the pageant with organization and efficacy at the forefront.  I, along with all the other contestants was treated with respect and care.  I loved meeting such accomplished women from all over the globe and I’m blessed to have forged real friendships with many.  My roommate, Summer Drake, Mrs. Oklahoma International was simply the best.  We connected through social media a few months ago and even texted the week before arriving in Jacksonville that we were slightly worried about the “roommate thing”—I know God had his hands all over that I couldn’t think of a more perfect lady to share my personal space, makeup and hair products and late night room service with.

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One of the biggest challenges in any pageant is our own personal tendency to play the comparison game.  Thankfully Team Texas has amazing sponsors that help with that aspect too!  Our Texas International interview coach, Valerie Hayes, and I worked on specific tactics to talk myself off the comparison cliff.  Our wardrobe sponsor Laine Berry of the Royal We helped design a look for the week that had me feeling so confident in what I was wearing I didn’t worry about what everyone else was dressed in.

I’m not ashamed to say I had a goal heading into Mrs. International, and that goal was to make the Top 15.  Contestants in the Top 15 give their platform statement on stage and answer a follow-up question.  I’d worked incredibly hard writing and memorizing my platform statement and I honestly felt that when I gave that speech I would be speaking for every woman who had or is currently suffering with perinatal mood disorder.  I wasn’t one of the Top 15 and didn’t have the opportunity to share my platform.  Was I disappointed?  Heck yes!  I’d worked extremely hard since being crowned Mrs. Texas to improve all areas of competition while making meaningful appearances that related directly to my platform.  Did I cry?  Yes.  Was it the end of the world?  No.

For me (and I would assume for many) the best part of competing in pageant is the personal development that takes place long before you enter the interview room or step into your evening gown.  All that self-work actually prepares you and strengthens you to hear your named called—or not.

I continue to be grateful that I represented the great state of Texas on an international stage and just as thankful I will continue to represent the Lone Star State until we crown our next Mrs. Texas International next spring.

Still your Mrs. Texas,

Kori

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Mrs. Texas International Arrives in Jacksonville for the Mrs. International Pageant

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I’m here!!  I am ecstatic to have arrived in Jacksonville for the 2016 Mrs. International Pageant.  It feels hard to believe I was crowned Mrs. Texas four months ago because I’ve been traveling across Texas, New Mexico and Arizona promoting my program, Beyond the Baby Blues, and Postpartum Progress, non-stop!  I can’t wait to meet the other titleholders and see what the week has in store.

I would like to thank our amazing Texas International sponsors for their support:

  • Valerie Hayes– thank you for helping me communicate the best and authentic version of myself. You are THE pageant coach for a reason; you are the best!  I lovingly call you a coach and a friend.
  • Laine Berry– when someone screams with delight at a dress you’ve selected you must be on to something. I can’t thank you enough for developing a signature look that fits inline so well with my own personal style.
  • Sheila Ybarra– sitting in your chair two days in a row was such a treat! Our makeup lesson was a game changer for me and I couldn’t have felt more beautiful for my headshots.  Thank you, thank you, and thank you.
  • Kerry Beyer– thank you for sharing your gift of photography. Each of my headshots is a work of art and shooting with you was a special memory I won’t soon forget.
  • Carlotta Lenox– thank you for your time and talent to perfect my stage presence and walk. You have helped to up my fierceness and grace!
  • Corrie Demmler/Paper Patina– My platform page and ad page for Mrs. International are interesting and visually stunning. Thank you for the high quality of work and the quick turn-around time.

To our director Rachel Hedstrom-

Rachel, you have quickly become a dear friend.  Your deep care for your titleholders and the Mrs. International system is visible in all you do.  Thank you for everything!

Team Texas thank yous wouldn’t be complete without Pam Blacketer-

Queen Mum, I’ve loved getting to know you and because of you my posture has improved greatly and I sincerely thank you!

To my little sisters, Taylor and Gracie-

I adore each of you and I’m so proud to see you each shining your light on the causes that speak to your hearts.  I love our Texas Queens blondentourage!

There are not enough words to thank my three leading men.  Jake, God blessed me with the perfect husband to walk through imperfect life and I praise Him daily for you in my life.  Zayne and Gage, thank you for making me a momma and challenging me with that calling everyday.  I cannot wait to see you in your tuxedos and shiny shoes!

Last but certainly not least to the Richardsons –

Thank you for the International system where women as community leaders are at the forefront.

Make sure you are following Mrs. Texas International on Facebook and the International Pageants Facebook, for all the Mrs. International week updates!

Kori Zwaagstra

Mrs. Texas International 2016

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Mrs. International Farabe’ Algor Offers Fitness Tips

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As promised in my last Texas blog, I am briefly touching on each area of competition leading up to pageant weekend. We are getting so close to crowning a new Mrs. Texas International. In fact, less than 3 months away. With February being heart health month I thought I would talk about the fitness portion of the competition. Even though fitness is not weighted as heavy as the interview portion, it can easily keep you from winning the coveted Mrs. Texas International title.

There are so many different work out routines easily available these days you just need to determine which one fits your style. For me personally, I need more of the structure of a class. I love Pure Barre! I was a competitive dancer until I graduated from High School so doing any kind of work out with a ballet barre was exciting to me! My first class, I left shaking! I also made sure to get to the gym about four times a week leading up to the pageant. Being non stop with the kids all day everyday helps immensely as well!

While you are busting your booty inside the gym, make sure that you are putting healthy things inside your body. There’s no point in working out hardcore if you are just going to head straight to McDonalds when you pull out of the parking lot. Remember, in the fitness portion you want to show not only how confident you are on stage in fitness wear, but also show that you are living a heart healthy lifestyle all year, and not just a few months before the pageant.

Until the Mission is Complete,

Farabe’ Algor

Mrs. International 2015

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Staying True to Yourself: Thoughts from Mrs. International Farabe’ Algor

Hey Texas! Are y’all busy preparing for Mrs. Texas International 2016? You are one month closer to walking on that great stage in Garland, Texas, and one of you is one step closer to joining the Mrs. Texas International sisterhood. With that being said, it is important that you not only stay focused on you and your goals, but also remember to be you and not to try to fit into one of the past queen’s shoes.

You are each unique and you each have an amazing story to tell (and remember that regardless of your placement). Don’t mold yourself into my look, Whitney’s, Rachel’s, Suzy’s, or any of the past fabulous queens that represented our great state. Each one of us are so different, yet we all had the same drive and goal in mind when we walked into the interview room.

Don’t change your look, the way you wear your hair, or your platform because you think you should pick one that was a “winning platform” in the past. Be YOU! Be the queen that is already representing her town, county or area with style, grace and beauty. Our system truly is one that has a different look each year. Not every system can say that, and you can clearly look back at previous winners and see that for yourself.

Mrs. International 2014 Maggi Thorne and I are not what you would call

Mrs. International 2014 Maggi Thorne and I are not what you would call “twins,” but we share something very important: being true to ourselves as individuals, and to our commitment to serve others. Official portraits by Clay Spann Photography at Competitive Image.

Winning a state title pretending to be someone you really aren’t deep-down will make for a very long year. Compete as yourself. Remember, no one does you better than you!

Until the Mission is Complete,

Farabe’

Farabe’ Algor

Mrs. International 2015

Mrs. Texas International 2015

Mrs. Texas Becomes Mrs. International 2015

When I arrived, I was able to say hello to Mrs. International 2014 Maggi Thorne, who is always radiant and was so welcoming to all of us.

When I arrived, I was able to say hello to Mrs. International 2014 Maggi Thorne, who is always radiant and was so welcoming to all of us.

Hi Ladies! I wanted to jot down a few things about my competition week at Mrs. International 2015. It was such an amazing journey to finally arrive at the much anticipated International pageant. I was in good hands as I prepared, competed and ultimately won the Mrs. International 2015 title. Rest assured, Rachel is a wonderful director and goes above and beyond for her queens!

Jacksonville is the perfect host city for the International Pageants. They welcomed each of us with open arms and made sure that every need was met. On Tuesday, we had an outing day to St. Augustine, the outlets for shopping, and then a behind the scenes tour of the Jacksonville Jaguar stadium. It was alot of fun to get to know each of the other contestants before our week became hectic with rehearsals, interviews, prelims and finals.

Getting to know my pageant sisters was definitely the highlight of my week!

Getting to know my pageant sisters was definitely the highlight of my week!

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Wednesday we spent all day and evening in rehearsals, but the day truly flew by and before I knew it, it was Thursday and time for interviews. Our judges were great! Rachel again does a great job of finding similar in dynamic judges for the Texas pageant to ensure the best queen is truly crowned to represent our great state at the next level. After interviews were over around 2 pm we headed straight back to the theater for more rehearsals.

Friday, you guessed it, more rehearsals. Our husbands joined us around 1. We practiced and practiced again, but the pageant went off without any glitches. Friday we actually practiced until 5, ran to get dinner and had to be back ready by 6:30 for prelims to start at 7:30. I can honestly say that I had ZERO nerves on Friday night. I just did my thing. Being on stage is definitely my strong point. Don’t get me wrong, I was a nervous wreck before interviews.

Saturday, after more rehearsals it was time to do it all over again for Finals. After opening number, they announced the Go Red for Women winner (Mrs. India Intl) and the photogenic award. That I WON! I was so shocked! I have never won that before. (The photos from the entire week were judged, along with personal style and not just the photo submitted for the web page). After I made top 16, the rest of the night was a race to the finish line. We had about 5 seconds to change from one area of competition to the next beginning with On Stage Question.

In the dressing room, ready for opening number. So blessed to represent the great state of Texas!

In the dressing room, ready for opening number. So blessed to represent the great state of Texas!

When the top 10 were standing at the end, holding hands, I remember hearing 4th, 3rd, 2nd, 1st and then my name and that’s it. I saw Maggi walking towards me, followed by my husband holding a huge bouquet of flowers. I know I saw my arms, not hands, shaking (haha) and Maggi telling Justin to just smile because he was having trouble placing the crown on my head.

Thank you, Paula Preston Photography, for capturing this amazing moment! This picture was up in Times Square in New York City!

Thank you, Paula Preston Photography, for capturing this amazing moment! This picture was up in Times Square in New York City!

It was the most amazing experience and my reign, so far, has been nothing short of a dream come true. Once a TEXAS queen ALWAYS as TEXAS queen!

Until the Mission is Complete,

Farabe’

Mrs. International 2015